I LOVE Japan. We have hosted two of the most beautiful exchange students in our home that have become additional daughters. Now my eldest and Beau (both studying the language at university) have booked their 'lifetime' trip. How do I dissuade them? What's in store. I feel sick with worry but they are resolutely determined to go in June. Of course they re supported by their Japanese friend's encouragements. I'm overwhelmed with worry and it is consuming me. Who cares about flooring decisions?!!!